Sex therapy for men · La Roca del Vallès and online
Therapist specialising in erectile dysfunction in La Roca del Vallès and online
I am a psychologist working with erectile dysfunction: I work on what lies behind the body not responding, without pressure, shame or judgement.
I accompany you in a warm, confidential space where you can talk plainly about what is happening to you, understand how anxiety, stress, self-demand or fear of failure play into it, and work towards living your sexuality with more security, calm and confidence.
Do you feel erectile dysfunction is affecting your sexual and emotional life?
When your body does not respond the way you expect, it is normal for insecurity, frustration and fear to appear. You may recognise yourself in some of these situations:
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Fear of it happening again
After a bad experience, every intimate encounter can be lived with tension. You anticipate failing even before you start.
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The pressure blocks you
The more you try to control the situation, the more anxious you feel. The demand to “perform” ends up being the main obstacle.
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You avoid intimacy
Sometimes you would rather avoid sex or put encounters off so as not to face the fear, the discomfort or the frustration.
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Your self-esteem takes a hit
You start questioning yourself, comparing yourself or feeling that something in you is not working as it should. The insecurity affects how you see yourself as a man.
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The relationship is affected
Lack of communication, tension or emotional distance can start to cause difficulty in the relationship too.
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You find it hard to talk about
You know it worries you, but sharing it can bring shame or fear of judgement, which often means you live with it in silence.
It is time to leave the fear behind and recover your confidence
I have worked with many men who arrived convinced their body had failed them for good. It is almost never that: it is anxiety, self-demand and fear of failure working together, and that can certainly be looked at.
FROM PRESSURE TO CONFIDENCE
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Understand what is happening
Understand which emotional, mental or relational factors are shaping your sexual response.
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Ease sexual anxiety
Learn to handle the fear of failure, the self-demand and the pressure that appear before or during intimacy.
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Recover your confidence
Feel confident again in your body and in your ability to enjoy an encounter without anticipating the problem.
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Improve the connection with yourself
Reconnect with your sensations, your desire and your sexual experience from a more conscious, less demanding place.
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Talk without shame
Find a warm, professional therapeutic space where you can express yourself plainly and feel understood.
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Enjoy sex without pressure
Leave behind the need to prove yourself or perform, and live sex again from pleasure, connection and calm.
Working on erectile dysfunction means recovering security, wellbeing and confidence
You do not have to go on living your sexuality from fear, pressure or frustration.
Psychologist in couples therapy, individual therapy and sex therapy
David Puig
Hello, I am David Puig, a psychologist and sex therapist specialising in men’s sexual health, couples therapy and sexual difficulties such as erectile dysfunction.
I work with men who live their sexuality under pressure, insecurity or fear of failure. The way I work is based on warmth, active listening and respect, creating a space where you can talk plainly about something that is very often lived in silence.
From a psychological and sexological perspective, we will work together to understand what is happening to you and help you recover a freer, more confident and more satisfying sexual life.
Where can you find me?
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Frequently asked questions
Can erectile dysfunction be resolved?
In many cases psychological work helps, especially when anxiety or self-demand are involved. In the first session we assess your case and, if physical causes should be ruled out, I will tell you so you can look at it with your doctor too.
Can anxiety cause erectile dysfunction?
Yes. Stress, pressure and fear of failure are very common factors behind this kind of difficulty.
Is it normal to feel ashamed talking about this?
Yes, and it is more common than you imagine. That is why we work in a safe space, without judgement and always at your pace.
Do I need a partner to work on erectile dysfunction?
No. You can start the process on your own, whatever your relationship situation.
How long does the process take?
It depends on each case. In the first session we assess your situation and set out a plan suited to you.
Can the sessions be online?
Yes. You can do the whole process either in person or online.
This content is for information only and does not replace a professional assessment or a course of therapy. If a sexual difficulty appears suddenly or comes with other symptoms, speak to your doctor as well. If you are thinking of harming yourself, call 024: it is free, confidential and open 24 hours. In an emergency, call 112.
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Do you want to leave the fear behind and recover confidence in your sex life?
Start your process now and work on erectile dysfunction in a professional, warm space with no judgement.
